Love Shouldn’t Hurt: Domestic Violence Awareness Month 2022
By: Z Family Law
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, so-designated as a time to raise awareness about the prevalence of domestic violence, advocate for protection, acknowledge survivors, and remember victims. Because many abused persons suffer in silence as a result of fear, intimidation, or shame, domestic violence may seem like an isolated issue that affects only a small proportion of the population. Sadly, the reality is that domestic violence happens at near-epidemic proportions in the U.S., and does not discriminate; anyone of any age, gender, race, religion, or socioeconomic status can be a victim of abuse by an intimate partner. In the U.S., an average of 20 people experience intimate partner physical violence every minute, equating to more than 10 million abuse victims annually.
What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence (“DV”), or intimate partner violence (“IPV”) is defined as “willful intimidation as part of a systemic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against another.” Domestic violence takes many forms, including physical assault or intimidation, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, threats, and efforts to control the victim’s life, decisions, and circumstances. DV can result in physical injury, psychological trauma, and even death.
The Impacts of Domestic Violence
The impacts of domestic violence can be wide-ranging and long-lasting. The physical, mental, and emotional scars of abuse can last a lifetime, and even cross generations, perpetuating cycles of abuse and trauma. On a broader level, intimate partner violence has been estimated to cost the US economy between $5.8 billion and $12.6 billion annually. This includes medical and mental health care costs, lost productivity, and other direct and indirect costs incurred as a result of IPV.
In addition to direct physical injury caused by abuse and assault, victims of IPV have a higher risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, as a result of forced intercourse and/or prolonged stress, and abuse victims have a higher rate of depression and suicidal behavior than nonabused persons.
Many survivors experience significant financial impacts, including job instability and job loss, loss of income, accrual of debt, and damaged credit, among other things, and research shows abuse can even impede educational attainment. Further, because domestic violence so often occurs at a person’s home, it can be difficult for victims to find safe residence away from their abusers, trapping them in unsafe situations, or leaving them without housing. In fact, DV is a leading cause of homelessness – in DC, 42% of unhoused adults surveyed in 2021 cited a history of domestic violence as a primary reason they were homeless.
Domestic Violence Resources
Domestic violence and abuse is unacceptable. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available 24/7. For free, confidential and anonymous assistance, contact any of the organizations listed below. You can also seek immediate assistance at a local police station, an emergency room, or by calling 911.
For assistance seeking protection through the court system in Maryland, contact Z Family Law by calling (301) 388-5528.
For Victims
National Resources
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233 (TTY: 1-800-787-3224)
Text LOVEIS to 1-866-331-9474
Chat via their website 24/7/365
- Go Ask Rose Operation Safe Escape
202-656-6430 Resources for safety planning and online safety advice
- The National Sexual Assault Hotline
Get help 24/7: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Chat here with a trained specialist online
- Women’s Shelters
Has a nationwide directory of emergency, family, and transitional shelters for women
Maryland
- House of Ruth Maryland
24-hour hotline and for emergency shelter: 410-889-7884
- Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence
1-800-MD-HELPS
- Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault
1-800-983-RAPE
For rape crisis centers and services across Maryland, go here
- Maryland State Bar Association (MSBA)
For a list of domestic violence resources for counties throughout Maryland, click here
- Maryland Legal Aid
For an office list by county, go here.
- AYUDA
Provides services by telephone for immigrant survivors of domestic violence, human trafficking, and sexual assault
240-594-0600
- 2-1-1 Maryland
Call 211 for help, or text your zip code to 898-211
More domestic violence resources are available here
Montgomery County
- Montgomery County DHHS Abused Persons Program 24 Hour Crisis Services
For county residents, the program offers victims of abuse services such as emergency shelter, transitional housing, and 24 hour telephone and walk-in crisis counseling
24 Crisis Center: 240-777-4000 (TTY 240-777-4815)
Service/Intake: 240-777-4195
- Montgomery County Victim Assistance and Sexual Assault Program (VASAP)
Weekdays: 240-777-1355
24-hour crisis line 240-777-4357
- Montgomery County Police Department Domestic Violence Unit
240-773-5050
District of Columbia
- D.C. Victim Hotline
To reach the hotline, dial or text 1-844-4HELPDC (1-844-443-5732)
Access their online chat here
- D.C. Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Lists domestic violence resources and providers for D.C.
- Legal Aid Society of the District of Columbia
Call (202) 628-1161 or complete an online intake form
- DC Safe
For a list of community resources, click here
To talk to a SAFE advocate about filing for a Civil Protection Order, call (202) 879-0157
- Coalition for the Homeless
Shelter Hotline 202-399-7093
- House of Ruth (D.C.)
If you need safe shelter, call 202-667-7001, ext. 320 or email intake@houseofruth.org
For domestic violence counseling services, call their Domestic Violence Support Center at 202-667-7001, ext. 515
- My Sister’s Place
202-529-5261
- AYUDA
Provides services by telephone for immigrant survivors of domestic violence, human trafficking, and sexual assault
202-387-4848
Help for Abusers
- Montgomery County Abused Persons Program
Services for offenders are available by calling 240-777-4858. Walk in services for offenders are located at 981 Rollins Avenue, Rockville - National Domestic Violence Hotline Help for Abusive Partners